Surprisingly, I do agree that a woman can do it all and have it all. I do not believe this can happen at the same time. The idea of a perfect woman, great mother and ideal wife is not a real conception. This is a fairy tale.
Through many years of meeting women, I have seen many kinds. None of these women has successfully achieved all of these things at one time. It is very possible to be a wonderful mom, great wife and successful in your care...